~sahabat selamanya~

setiap hari pg2 kene anta amanda pg sekolah.. n setiap hari jugak la denga hot.fm...ok la gak...mengurang kan tensen...n lagu yg setiap hari akan ad kat hot fm adalah lagu sahabat selamnya by padi...ost upin dan ipin....memula denga lagu ni mcm pelik jugak la....tp bila da slalu denga ase sgt best lagu ni...ase x lengkap hari kalo x denga lagu ni...btw lagu ni mengingtkan aku kat sahabat2 aku yg selama ni selalu ad disamping.....susah n senang...x kira masa..n mereka la anta org2 yg aku syg ....

click untuk tgk video clip dia k
sahabat selamanya

n ni lirik dia...
Dua tiga kapal berlayar di samudra
Ayo sahabatku kita bergembira
Bermain bernyanyi bersama menikmati indahnya dunia

Karena Sahabat untuk selamanya
Bersama untuk selamanya
Kau dan aku sahabat
Untuk selamanya setia

Berakit-rakit kita kehulu
Berenang-renang kita ketepian
Kita berbeda untuk saling mengisi
Segala kekurangan kita

mencari Sahabat untuk selamanya
Atasi semua perbedaan
Kau dan aku sahabat
Untuk selamanya… Selamanya setia

Sahabat untuk selamanya
Berbagi dan saling menjaga
Kau dan aku sahabat
Untuk selamanya… Selama-lamanya… setia…

p/s: khas untuk semua sahabat...love u all

~Mastering the art of apologizing~

Have you ever been talking to a friend and, before you could catch yourself, said something totally rude and incredibly stupid? Your friend probably replied with “No problem,” but you can tell she’s mad, and you feel like an idiot. What to do to minimize the damage? “We inevitably do offend people, and offence creates a barrier. An apology conveying sincerity removes the barrier,” says Jennifer Thomas, coauthor of The Five Languages of Apology.

Why Is It So Hard to Apologize?
It's not about you. “Some people may see apologizing as a pride thing—a sign of weakness. They think it will hurt them in some way, but if you don't acknowledge the offense, it can be insulting for the other person,” says Beverly Engel, author of The Power of Apology. Remember that apologies are healing: It gives the person the opportunity to forgive and it mends your relationship

What to Say?
The most important things are your intention and attitude. “If your apology doesn't come across as sincere, it will be meaningless,” says Engel, who describes these three essential points to make when apologizing:

1. Recognize your relationship with the person.
Realizing how important the friendship is to you will impact how powerful your apology should be. Lauren Bloom, author of The Art of the Apology, says, “With friends, it’s tempting to assume that you can afford to be casual about the situation, but really you must treat it with the seriousness of any other apology”.

2. Express regret.
“When saying you’re sorry, show compassion and empathy,” says Engel. “You know that your action hurt someone.” Take responsibility by showing the person you know it was your fault. And be sure not to somehow blame the other person, says Engel. Don’t use the word “but” and don’t get defensive, says Bloom. You should always make sure you convey understanding for the pain you’ve caused.

3. Find a remedy.
Replacing what was lost or broken or finding another way to make it up to the person can speak volumes.

What Happens Next?
Once you apologize, be patient with the response. Yes, it would be easier for you if the person accepted your apology immediately, but that doesn’t always happen. “Don’t put pressure on the other, because that could ignite anger again,” Engel says. And if the person doesn’t accept your apology right away, try another way of apologizing. Keep in mind, a letter can help. “A letter gives the other person time to digest: She may reject it at first, but over time there is more of a chance that she will forgive,” she adds


p/s : sedangkan nabi pun ampun kan umat, lagikan kita manusia biasa...kan

~S.O.R.R.Y~

ehm...musim kesibukan melanda

stop blogging for a while....to be continued after final year project presentation

(mybe on 15th & 16th of november 2010)

wish me luck on my final year exam and final year project presentation

bye guys~

~lagi dan lagi~

hari ni puasa yg ke 22..alhamdulillah...lbh kurang 8 hari je lagi nak raya...seronok..hehe

isnin, 30 ogos 2010..berbuka puasa ngn dak2 pst..shah, jamal nizam n sorang lg dak junior...lame giler x jumpememasing..mcm2 citer kua...jamal n shah da kerja...alhamdulillah....nizam n ana masih blaja lg...insyaAllah akan follow diorg jugak one day..btw diorg sume masih di jalan yg same...masih kekal amek engineering..ana je da beralih arah...
semalam(selasa, 31 ogos 2010) berbuka puasa kat umah Puan Jamaliah....sgt seronok..bermula dari pukul 12.00 teman puan pg pasar kat seksyen 6..membeli belah...bnyk jugak barang beli...terasa mcm pg pasar ngn mak pulak...hehe...time ni kitorg ber5..pau izzah bella norin n aku..actly da lame x pg pasar basah..hehe.

after that terus p umah puan kat ttdi...area poli shah alam...husband puan x ad..yg ad anak2 puan je...3 org n sume gurl...so kitorg pon wat mcm umah sendiri ler...ngeh3...norin n bella siap bnyk baju 2-3 helai lg...da mcm nak bermalam kat umah puan lak..hehe...strt dr kol 2lbh kitorg da ke dapur...1st menu puding cair..(x tau name dia) yg penting sedap...balik johor nak wat..hehe...senang lak 2 nak wat...(alamak teringt lak kat puding 2..sedapnyeeee) then siang ayam...goreng ayam...time ni tgk sume bende nampak best je..ngeh3....
pastu dlm kol 3lbh syad, fakhriah, kak mira n muni sampai lak...semakin la meriah....pastu anis ngn rina plak sampai...bertambah meriah....siap masak n hidang dalam pkul 6...then mandi2..solat...tgk tv...tgk cite epilog syurga cinta...seronok tgk ngn member2 ni...mcm2 aksi muncul...ngeh3...pastu dekat2 nak buka syafik n hawari lak sampai...tp memula diorg malu2 kucing...(poyo)...hahaha
time berbuka x bnyk ckp la...memasing lg fokus kat mknan...hehe..menu berbuka : ayam masak pecal, kerabu, ikan keli masak sambal(kak mira masak), tempe goreng, sambal kisap n sambal belacan..opps lupe menu tambahan kek coklat(pau buat) n puding nyum3...air bandung soda(fakhriah wat) n air durian belanda..
lepas magrib lepak2 sambil borak2 sambil mkn puding.,...nyummy2...sgt best...sambil2 berborak sambil2 bergambar....sambil2 bergurau membuli....seronok sgt...i'll miss that moment. =( ..hope our frenship will never end...
balik sampai umah lbh kurang 10lbh..letih tp sgt seronok....bila dpt kumpul lg...huhu
(pic insyaAllah akan di upload later)will miss this moment...huhu

~puasa entry~

alhamdulillah...da 14 hari berpuasa...smg thn ini bukan tahun terakhir dpt menyambut bulan yg mulia ini....so far da berpuasa kat kg...sgt2 meriah..mase 2 sume balik kecuali kak ila sekeluarga...penuh dapur...kalo kak ila balik jugak cmfm x muat da..kene mkn kat ruang tamu..hehe..tgk gelagat anak2 sedara berpose pon seronok...mcm2 ragam...sblm buka bukan amen lg nak mkn itu, nak mkn ini..last2 time buka x pon mkn sume bende...x pela budak2 kan..biase la...yg da besar pon mcm 2 jugak
ngehngehngeh

berpuasa di shah alam...ehm...insyaAllah ni last year berpuasa as student...ngn kawan2...seronok memng seronok...lg2 mase p bazar sama2...memasing tamak nak mkn sume bende..last2 x abis..aiyaaa...pembaziran...(usually aku le yg mcm 2..ngehngehngeh...)ape la nak jd...pastu nanti ade la yg tolong bebelkan....hehe

ehmmmm baju raya lak...ade 4 pasang...aritu mase balik johor baru sepasang da siap...da cuba da pon..terase nak pkai terus je mase 2...ngehngehngeh...tp mak x bg..hahaha....kalah kan anak2 sedare..mak kate..hehe...warna tema thn ni..ntah le...x tau nak kate baju2 2 kaler pae..hehe..tudung n kasut raya klom beli lg ni...wah suhana...raya sakan ekh....last year untuk kumpul wet raye....kawan2(yg da kerje) n my dear syg...jgn lupe bg kami dak2 sekolah wet raye k..hehe

last but not least.....kueh raya....ade org request almond london...n x mo yg kedai punye...alamak....macam mane ni..x pandai wat.huhuhu...so far tnye kawan2 pon x ad yg pandai wat..hehe...biskut ni memng susah nak wat..sume org pon kate mcm 2...kpd yg request 2...org beli je la ea...x reti la nk wat...huhu...x pon soh request kat ur mom k...hehe =)

ehm.....x sabo nak tunggu 5 sept...nak balik...n already miss my love..ngehngehngeh...cepat la 5hb...cpt la 5 hb........tata~

~ehmmmm...~

ehmm...lately my emotionsenang sgt nak terusik...lagi2 dgn my dear....kene tegur sikit merajuk...kene marah merajuk....x reply msg pon same..aiyaaa suhana sejak bile ni....sowi syg...sowi sgt2....nape ntah ngn sy lately....sensitif sgt...btw thanks coz rajin je melayan kerenah sy yg ntah ape2 ntah ni....huhu...sowi dear....btway miss u so much....syg sgt2

ehmmm...i miss my frenz...sgt2...huhu..... =(
(mmg mood bengong2 skrgni)
rindu lak suasana kat pd aritu
tp x bape nak syok sgt...malam 2 ujan..plan nak lepak pantai sampai tgh malam x dpt nak jalankan..last kitorg yg pompuan bantai membuta je..hehe..
harap2 ni bukan la yg terakhir kita dpt holiday lg ek...hopefully

da x tawu nak coret ape lg
thanks kat korang sume coz jd member aku...cant find others like u all....thanks again...

~back to school~

alhamdulillah..selesai sudah praktikal di kolej kemahiran tinngi mara sri gading(kktmsg)..sedih la plak ase bile nak tinggal kan opis..hehe...kpd semua staff kktmsg thanks banyk2....enjoy praktikal kat sana...akak2 n abg2 sana memng sporting la..lg2 akak2 bhgn pentadbiran... =)

esok gerak ke kl...with my mom n my dad...mlm kak ina 1 family pon akan gerak ke kl jugak with her bro-in-law n fam abg mi..ahad balik shah alam...back to school...kembali jd student balik...final sem...gambatte suhana..tinggal 1 semester je lg sebelum semuanya berakhir..permintaan mak untuk terus sambung master x dpt nak tunaikan wat masa sekarang...da x mampu nak stady lg...tunggu la one day nanti if da bosan keje plak..hehe

ehmm..mybe pasni da x slalu la update entry...kalo ad pon seminggu sekali...mungkin la tp...tgk keadaan kebzan nye mcm mane...

ehmm..nyway...bubye johor..bubye kawan2 n bubye dear...ad rezki jumpa lagi..
tata..hehe